“When you change the pattern beneath your behavior, everything above it begins to change.”
You Know There’s More for You — Let’s Unlock It Together.
High performers feel the pull: more clarity, stronger boundaries, deeper relationships, and leadership that feels authentic. Unconscious patterns quietly hold you back.
I help you uncover them, shift them, and step into who you’re meant to be.
How We Create Real Change
01 Clarify the Real Issue
Focused conversation to uncover what’s truly driving your patterns. Leave with direction and relief.
02 Map Your Patterns with EQ-i 2.0 Insights
Validated assessment + detailed 20+ page personalized report.
03 Act, Integrate & Sustain Change
Tailored strategies, coaching, and accountability for lasting shifts in decisions, boundaries, and relationships.
Emotional Intelligence Framework
“Even the first conversation shifted my perspective. Joe zeroed in on the pattern behind my burnout and gave practical next steps I could use right away. Insightful and freeing.”
Below are some of the main ways to work with me. These packages give a general sense of the range, and customized programs can be created depending on your goals.
Because I work closely with clients, I take on a limited number at a time. If one of the options resonates, feel free to fill out the short form below and we can schedule a brief conversation to see if we’re aligned and answer any questions.
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Clarity Session
$500
One 90-minute session to pinpoint the core pattern + concrete next steps.
Ideal for: Fast insight and momentum.
Includes: Prep questions, recorded Zoom session, summary notes.
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Emotional Intelligence Reset
$1,200
Targeted reset of emotional patterns holding you back.
Includes (3 sessions total):
• EQ-i 2.0 assessment (~20 min)
• 30+ page personalized report
• One 90-minute debrief (Zoom)
• Two 60-minute follow-up sessions (Zoom) for application and accountabilityIdeal for: Concrete insights + guided change in a short package.
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Transformational Coaching Container
$3,000 / 3 months
Ongoing partnership for deep, sustainable alignment.
Includes: EQ-i report + bi-weekly sessions + support between sessions + accountability + tools.
Ideal for: Committed high performers ready for real transformation.
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Consulting & Advisory
Pricing varies
Tailored work for individuals or teams.
What People Experience After the Shift
Breakthroughs You Can Expect
Clients often come to this work during moments of growth or transition, such as:
Leading with calm authority instead of reactivity
Setting boundaries that protect your energy
Having hard conversations productively
Making clearer decisions under pressure
Building deeper, authentic relationships
Feeling aligned and energized in life
You stop fighting invisible patterns—and start living as your best self.
Don’t Wait Another Quarter to Unlock What’s Next.
One conversation can change the trajectory.
Questions? Email joe@40pillars.com or book directly.
Group Coaching Cohorts – Peer-Powered Growth
Small-group coaching: deeper insights, peer accountability, shared breakthroughs with other high performers.
A cohort is currently running—people are using EQ-i insights to practice boundaries, hard conversations, and alignment in real time.
Ready for the Next Cohort?
Limited spots (5–10 max) for maximum impact. Join the waitlist to get first access, early details, and priority when enrollment opens.